[April 4, 2025] This is an easy one today. I’m not sure who compiled this list of 50 unspoken social rules, so if you know, please put the reference in the comments section. This article is easy because these rules perfectly fit nicely with the basics of good leadership. There are, however, many more than 50. Let’s dig into them.
I like this list for several reasons. First, my Mom would have been the one whispering in my ear about all of these rules at every chance she got, bless her soul. Moms are often the front line of defense for children, making sure their kids get on the right track in life. Dads make sure they stay on track. Ultimately, these rules are “unspoken” for adults, not children.
Another reason I like this list is that it is helpful for today’s youngsters. Too many young folks have their heads buried in their smartphones and are, consequently, slow to learn basic courtesy. Too often, they don’t even care. Those who fail to learn social rules that extend far beyond work or school will suffer unfortunate consequences.
Lastly, I like this list because it shows that humans are first and foremost social creatures, and that has been true since time immemorial. We must live with others, period. Our lives and sanity depend upon it. Those who choose to ignore the social aspects of their existence will forever regret that decision to ignore their responsibilities..
If you like this list, post a comment and add more in the forum/comment section below. I’m interested in what you have to say about it.
Some other life rules I could add. There are many more but I think you get the idea:
- Smile more.
- Look at the person who is speaking to you.
- Let someone go ahead of you in line.
- Learn and use peoples’ names.
- Say “please” and “thank you.”
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Another excellent article with many good points from the brain of Gen. Satterfield. Read this list and post it on your refrig for daily reading.
Ha, I’m sure we could come up with a lot more.
Gen. Satterfield is asking us for more unspoken social rules. I’d just refer us to his book “55 rules for a good life” where many can be found. 👍 I have my own copy sitting on my desk at home where I sometimes just open the book randomly to one of the “rules” and read about it and how I can make myself better, or, I can help a younger person by giving them this sage advice.
https://www.amazon.com/55-Rules-Good-Life-Responsibility/dp/1737915529/
Not that far off topic, but if anyone here has a little time (April 4), then go over to Gen. Satterfield’s DAILY FAVORITES and read the Civitas Institute articles. They are great. But don’t think that these will be an easy read. You’ll find relevant articles that impact us all. One of them, my personal favorite, is about how Marxism/Communism still exists after the horrific death toll in the name of Communism – over 100 million in the 20th century. Why is that so? And that is the question the author is trying to answer.
Bryan, thanks, I went there and read these two articles. Link here:
https://www.theleadermaker.com/daily-favorites-new/
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Rules are the basic pillar of a well-established society and rules stand as the very foundation upon which societies are built. In every society where education is the first priority, definitely, they must add safety rules which can put everybody on their limit. The main idea here is that it is the responsibility of each of us to adopt these rules fully. Without rules, we are lost because rules produce a social structure that we can exist in and be safe and happy.
Following basic social rules (aka “norms”) is about showing respect for yourself and everyone else in your little corner of the planet. In a world where rudeness often reigns, why not stand out for being polite and thoughtful? You don’t even have to go to charm school or binge-watch Downton Abbey to learn the rules! If you’re interested, follow these rules and get a copy of Gen. Satterfield’s book.
👍 indeed 👍
I recommend this book by Gen. Satterfield—- “55 Rules for a Good Life.” Now this is how to get the best “rules” for life.
While these may seem very obvious (or common sense) to those of us with longer life experiences, they are not so obvious to the younger generation. I know that it’s frequent for us to put down the young folks. And maybe they deserve this derision, or maybe not. But I think it’s true, like Gen. Satterfield wrote, that our younger generation has their heads in their phones and are not learning about basic social rules. Too bad for them because they will suffer for it.
Maybe they see these “social rules” as less important than the instant information and entertainment they are getting on their smartphones. Much has already been written about this phenomenon. 😬🫨🫥🙄😵😵💫🥴🤐😢
Good point, Greek Senator. This is why we all come here to read this wonderful and educational blog.
Nice.