[November 1, 2026] An interesting series of videos, and one worthy of promoting, looks inside the psychology and philosophy of humans. Red-line stick-figures are animated into short posts and explain what makes us tick. In this case, female solipsism is discussed.
The narration and concept originates with Jake Abdo’s “90 Days of Game” series (originally appearing as Day 20 in his full audiobook, later presented as Day 01 in this short). Abdo has a YouTube video with the same title: “Female Solipsism: She Experiences The Entire World Through Her Own Feelings.”
In this framework (common in certain dating/manosphere circles), female solipsism is described as the tendency for a woman to experience the world primarily through her own feelings. Her emotional state in the present moment becomes the measuring stick for what is true, fair, and real.
The narration typically runs along these lines:
- She is the sun; people, events, and conversations orbit her based on how they make her feel.
- Feelings function as a survival navigation tool (tied, in the telling, to historical reproductive costs and dependency).
- When she feels good, the environment reads as safe; when she feels bad, she may rewrite the facts of an event to match the emotion rather than the reverse.
- This is why accounts of the same argument can differ sharply: she experiences the past as it felt to her, and that feeling becomes the record she defends.
- The practical advice offered to men is not to debate facts in her emotional frame, but to shift her emotional state (or disengage), because her reality is filtered through current feelings while the man’s is treated as more stable/external.
Female Solipsism
— Ryan Dawson (@RyLiberty)
“Female solipsism” is not a clinical or scientific term from psychology or psychiatry. It is an informal, non-scientific concept adapted from the philosophical idea of solipsism (that only one’s own mind can be known to exist) and popularized in online men’s dating advice and manosphere spaces.
Critics note that egocentrism, emotional reasoning, and self-centered perception exist in both sexes and vary far more by individual emotional maturity, personality, and situation than by gender as a fixed rule. Supporters of the framing treat it as an observable pattern useful for understanding certain relationship dynamics.
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Gen. Satterfield, very interesting.