Rich Cooper on the 10 Red Flags

By | February 12, 2024

[February 12, 2024]  The dating game.  It sure has changed over the past decade, and if you’ve not been paying attention, then you’ve missed some fantastic debates among men and women.  Rich Cooper “is an entrepreneur, private equity investor, content creator … and high performance coach.”  He often discusses “red flags” for women and I have a list of 10 red flags he gave in a recent interview.

If you’re a woman reading this, you might rightly be insulted.  But there is plenty of truth here and while I don’t have the time to get into the nitty-gritty of Cooper’s observations, they should be out there for discussion.

Here are Rich Cooper’s 10 Red Flags to watch out for in women:

  1. Daddy issues: She doesn’t have a good relationship with her father. If this is true, then how can a man expect the woman to have a fulfilling relationship with him?
  2. Feminist: Most women if they identify as a feminist, they are a toxic version of modern feminism. They don’t seek equality with men, instead, they find ways to embrace victimhood.  It’s a loser’s mindset and since they are looking for the oppressor, the man becomes the oppressor.
  3. Boss Girls: Women that compete with you. They compare their wealth, status, authority, etc., with you.  Men are not interested in competing with women.
  4. Slew of past boyfriends: Nothing comes good from putting a woman in a room with a man who she has intimate with in her past.
  5. Violent tendencies: Women who have violent tendencies are a no-go. If the police have to be called, the man is the one who will be hauled away in handcuffs regardless.
  6. Tattoos, piercings, and ridiculous dagger nails: This is always controversial. Tattoos because they are traditionally a masculine trait, especially tattoos over large parts of their body.  These are a demonstration of a lack of good feminine taste.  “It’s like putting bumper stickers all over a Lamborghini.”  Women are beautiful by nature.
  7. High body counts: Women who have sleep with large numbers of men.  If you’re looking for a long-term relationship and a woman to have your kids, this is the wrong woman for you.  There are many studies that claim that women with many partners cannot properly pair bond with a man in a long-term relationship.  They are less able to stay happily married, have high divorce rates, more abortions, STDs, and bring kids in toe from past relationships.  Plus, these women bring more mental baggage to the relationship.
  8. Women with a committee of fools: Those that have other women around that they like to run ideas by to see if their girlfriends agree.  Much of this is through social media where it might not be just their girlfriends but random other women.
  9. Alcohol, smoking, or drugs: These are habits that cost money, create a substantial financial burden, lead to physically unhealthy habits, increased run-ins with the law, contact with unsavory and violent people, and can easily ruin a man.
  10. No work ethic and poor hygiene: Women who are lazy, unwilling to do the work required for the relationship, or have poor hygiene, and cannot motivate themselves to stay fit, feminine, and friendly will drain a man of all his energy.

For a good man to do well with women, he needs to do something of some significance.  Women will see that you are an influential man, that you’re competent, that you’ve got a great social network, and that you do incredible things.  If a woman wants to be with you, she needs to know that you only accept certain women who are willing to be part of his life and meet the healthy boundaries he sets up.  Otherwise, she will be gone from his life.

Men need to vet women before they get married and have children.  A mistake that men make is they desperately want the first woman who goes to bed with them.  These immature men don’t think about these red flags.  They should.  Beware!


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Author: Douglas R. Satterfield

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24 thoughts on “Rich Cooper on the 10 Red Flags

  1. Valkerie

    Rich Cooper is a man’s man. If you want to learn how to be with good women, then listen to him. Or read his book. One thing, however, he is a bit self-centered but that doesn’t distract from his message. Thank goodness there are real men out there to help us. General Satterfield, you’ve done us a favor by telling us about Rich Cooper.

    1. Eddie Gilliam

      Excellent comments. Have you noticed that a royal Ross does Have any commercial. The car knows its value. What are you saying. Ladies you are a Royal Ross with great value. So don’t lower your value for a man who did not value himself and you. Happy Valentines day to all you 💓 Ladies

  2. Harry Donner

    Wow, this is great. Gen. Satterfield doesn’t say it outright, but we can learn a little about the “modern” Western human condition from Rich Cooper and his 10 Red Flags. If you are a man looking to date or for a long term partner, pay close attention to his info here. This is no joke. Too many “modern” women are broken from their boss babe ideas based on feminism and the current fad with socialistic thinking. They believe they are better than men. Those women should never be in a relationship with any good strong man.

    1. Doug Smith

      Harry, I agree, let them date and marry weak men. That way they destroy each other and not good people. Stay far away from these women. I speak from experience.

      1. Yusaf from Texas

        Marry women young. Never ever date a woman in their 30s and beyond. Too much baggage.

        1. Douglas R. Satterfield Post author

          Hi Yusaf. I’m not sure that I would have that as a hard and fast rule. But I get the point. Feminist women with baggage holding them back will make your life miserable. Why volunteer for misery? No reason.

  3. Melissa Jackson

    Us women have fallen for our own propaganda. 😒😒😒😒😒

  4. Julia

    Women are getting hit hard these days with feminism on one side and toxic anti-male ideology on the other. Hard for them to find their way.

    1. Erik Pettersen

      True. So my recommendation is to find a mate quickly, get married and live around your relatives who can help. Don’t ever be a boss babe.

  5. Otto Z. Zuckermann

    MEN! Vet your woman carefully or they will make your life a living hell. Rich Cooper’s No. 1 Daddy issues: She doesn’t have a good relationship with her father. If this is true, then how can a man expect the woman to have a fulfilling relationship with him? So very true. If she can’t get along with her dad, she can’t get along with you because it is the job of the man to set moral rules and boundaries. Modern women see this as a form of slavery and will rebel. That is why they are so unhappy.

  6. Willie Strumburger

    Ways That Feminism Has Ruined America
    1. It hurt marriage. Women want to wait so that they can keep their identities longer and men are finding easy sex, taking away a big reason for marriage.
    2. Undermines child rearing. More kids are in childcare where discipline is lax resulting in a “epidemic” of bad kids, childhood obesity, and bullies.

  7. Liz at Home

    The most dangerous person in America today is a white, 30-something, feminist female.

  8. Janice Williamson

    As I woman, I feel a bit insulted, but .. at the same time .. this is so true. Women of America are WEAK mentally and emotionally. We need men to lead us onto the correct path in life.

    1. Lynn Pitts

      304s, plenty of us.
      Whores, the same, plenty of us.
      Single mothers who “don’t need no man,” plenty of us.
      If you are a Western woman today, likely you lack the basics of having a good life.
      I recommend reading “55 Rules for a Good Life” by Gen. Doug Satterfield and then get your life back on track.

      1. Yiddy of Macedonia

        Sad but true. This is the outcome of feminism. Destroyed women’s lives.

        1. Dead Pool Guy

          Sad to see. It is difficult to get a good woman these days because so many are just looking for a free ride, a free meal, a free house to live in, and a husband they can steal from without consequences. Third wave feminism at its best.

          1. Melo in Chicgo

            Yep, feminism at its best and destroys women instead of freeing them.

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