To be a Man, is to be a Good Man

By | December 5, 2022

[December 5, 2022]  General Satterfield’s recent article asking “how do I become a man?” sparked my thinking about my dad.  When talking to others, I always described my dad as a good man.  And then it hit me, he was a man because he was a good man. He was a fabulous dad but when I speak of… Read More »

Beautiful Babies and Abortion

By | November 29, 2022

[November 29, 2022]  Babies are beautiful.  I don’t think many would disagree with that statement.  And there is nothing more satisfying in one’s life than to bring a newborn into the world.  Surprisingly, there is the practice of abortion that runs counter to our connection with babies. Once you have a baby, you realize the complexity, the struggles,… Read More »

Promises for the New Year 2021

By | December 28, 2020

[December 28, 2020]  As we approach the New Year, I am reminded of my dad who used to say that the upcoming year is like a great movie waiting to be written.  This year 2021, there are promises that I have made.  Perhaps others should be making similar promises. I had a friend in the 1st Cavalry Division… Read More »

Leadership and the Big Five Personality Traits

By | March 3, 2020

[March 3, 2020]  We all know that for good leadership to work well, we need to speak and write clearly.  Like my grandmother, bigmama, that means sometimes being blunt.  Today, I’m doing introducing the psychological big five personality traits 1,2 because I will use those more here at www.theleadermaker.com. Over the next few weeks, I plan to draw… Read More »

Good Leaders Tolerate Mistakes

By | October 15, 2019

[October 15, 2019]  The average person thinks that when people make mistakes, they should be punished (e.g., fired from their job, go to prison).  This, however, does not fit reality.  From experience, leaders quickly learn to tolerate the mistakes of others.  They have learned that making mistakes is a well-trodden path to success for us all.  Immediate punishment… Read More »